{"id":5454,"date":"2023-12-08T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-12-08T14:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/?p=5454"},"modified":"2024-01-06T22:45:17","modified_gmt":"2024-01-07T03:45:17","slug":"how-to-spot-a-narcissist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/how-to-spot-a-narcissist\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Spot a Narcissist (Part 1 of 3)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/3-Ways-Narcissist-1-1024x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5455\" srcset=\"https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/3-Ways-Narcissist-1-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/3-Ways-Narcissist-1-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/3-Ways-Narcissist-1-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/3-Ways-Narcissist-1-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/3-Ways-Narcissist-1.png 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>After delivering a recent keynote speech, an audience member approached me and said, &#8220;Thank you for sharing your research on how to influence a narcissist! I have one in my life!&#8221;<br><br>Which reminded me that I haven&#8217;t posted about narcissism for a while, even though I spend a great deal of time advising senior leaders on how to influence their most problematic stakeholders.<br><br>I&#8217;m guessing that YOU have a narcissist in your life, too, right? Perhaps they&#8217;re entwined in your professional life, your personal life, or both.<br><br>I&#8217;ll spend the next few posts helping you sort out whether you&#8217;re dealing with a actual narcissist, how to manage their disruptive, disturbing interactions, and how to successfully change their oh-so-stubborn minds.<br><br>I&#8217;ve started here with three tell-tale clues to identify a potential narcissist. There are plenty more, of course, which I&#8217;ll share in the posts ahead. (I wrote an entire chapter about them in my book &#8220;The Real Deal.&#8221;)<br><br>Please consider sharing your thoughts and experiences here so that others can benefit from your hard-earned wisdom!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After delivering a recent keynote speech, an audience member approached me and said, &#8220;Thank you for sharing your research on how to influence a narcissist! 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