{"id":5451,"date":"2024-01-03T09:59:00","date_gmt":"2024-01-03T14:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/?p=5451"},"modified":"2024-01-06T22:43:22","modified_gmt":"2024-01-07T03:43:22","slug":"how-to-influence-a-narcissist-mindset","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/how-to-influence-a-narcissist-mindset\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Influence a Narcissist: Mindset (Part 1 of 5)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Narcissism-Series-LI-1024x1024.png\" alt=\"Leading executive coach Connie Dieken shares how to influence a narcissist in part one of this series. \" class=\"wp-image-5452\" srcset=\"https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Narcissism-Series-LI-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Narcissism-Series-LI-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Narcissism-Series-LI-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Narcissism-Series-LI-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/conniedieken.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Narcissism-Series-LI.png 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ready for a new approach to the challenging person in your life? As the year ended, I launched a series on narcissism. You discovered tips on how to identify a narcissist. Now let&#8217;s turn to solutions so the person will stop upending your leadership, work, or family.<br><br>You might be thinking, &#8220;I&#8217;ll just cut them out of my life!&#8221;<br><br>That&#8217;s ideal if there&#8217;s no collateral damage. But chances are, you didn&#8217;t invite the narcissist into your life\u2014you&#8217;re likely entangled with them through work or family. Which means you need to find solutions to influence their behavior when you&#8217;re around them.<br><br>I see this every day as an executive coach. Narcissists get under everyone&#8217;s skin, even the C-Suite executives that I advise.<br><br>So let&#8217;s start with your mindset. Begin by reframing. Tip #1: Don&#8217;t &#8220;cope with&#8221; the narcissist&#8217;s behavior\u2014MANAGE it.<br><br>Coping and managing are two fundamentally different mindsets. 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